Hey guys. Can you help me out with this please?
I got my heart broken by an evil guy. I wanted to marry him more than anything, and he made me believe he loved me back. He just led me on because he liked the attention. (kicked me to the curb when he wanted to chase a married woman, took back a concert ticket to take another girl, never kept his promises, ignored my emails for months, etc.)
To be honest, I got over him, and now I know what I want in a guy. But I'm kind of worried about something.
I have a lot of guy friends, and some of them are quite handsome and have great personalities. Sometimes, when I think about my perfect match, I'd imagine that he has a lot of good qualities that my friends have, even their attractiveness. I know that a relationship with these guy friends can never work; it just can't, but is it wrong to feel this way about them? I don't want to fall in love for a long time. Is it a bad thing to wish my future match has a lot of their qualities?
How can you prevent yourself from developing a crush on them?