Not sure what to do....afraid I'm going to loose her as a friend?
I've been seeing this girl for 3 weeks. We both really like each other a lot. I have huge commitment issues I've never been able to commit to a girl ever. I told her Saturday I didn't want to be with her.
Our mutual friends were upset with me saying I lead her on for 3 weeks. I sort-of did I just can't commit. I lied to her and told her I never really had feelings for her.
She kept pushing the issue for the past 2 days. It was almost like she was begging me. It came off really desperate. She wouldn't let it go....she had our mutual friends over & they all tried to talk to me about dating her and how I shouldn't be afraid to just give it a chance.
She told me she was gonna leave town (due to other reasons) which she opened up to me about. Which made me feel REALLY bad for doing what I did. I hung out with her last night for like 3 hours and we talked and I told her I'd reconsider things. I really like her a lot. But after I told her I'd reconsider things....I realized I just can't do it and told her I just wanted to be friends.
She got really annoyed
It's like she won't take no for an answer
It's like she knows deep down I really like her which I do I just can't commit
Now she like won't speak to me and distanced herself from me.
she can't just be "normal" & a friend.
I haven't heard from her now all last night....